Your school works.
But somewhere along the way, you became its invisible operating system.
You're the one who remembers what everyone needs to know. Who notices what isn't getting done. Who anticipates the problem before it becomes a problem. Who keeps track of all the things no one else even realizes need tracking.
The school is functioning. But too much of that functioning still depends on you.
At Schools of Excellence, we work with school leaders who have built real schools — and are still carrying far too much of what makes them work.
My book, This Can't Be Normal, explores the invisible weight of being the person everyone depends on — and what happens when your capacity becomes the infrastructure.

I'm the founder of Schools of Excellence and author of This Can’t Be Normal.
Learn more about Chanie & Schools of Excellence.
The Anchor Map shows you the places where your anchors hold steady and the places where they slip when pressure, fog, or exhaustion hit. Not so you can beat yourself up, but so you can notice: this is where I need reinforcement.
Through this interactive clarity guide, you’ll see with new clarity:
Where you’re already anchored
Where pressure cracks start to show
Where a simple reinforcement could hold you steady again
Because you’re not trying to become someone new. You’re returning to the leader you already are underneath the noise, the guilt, and the pressure.



The book gives you the map. This is the compass you carry with you.
A private library of short, guided sessions designed to help you return to yourself, find clarity, and move forward—whatever season you’re in.
When leadership feels heavy or directionless, this practice helps you pause, name your season, and return to the anchor you most need right now. This is the one you’ll come back to again and again.
For the days you’re exhausted but leadership still needs you. A guided practice to stop waiting for energy and start creating it.
When things finally feel smooth, this session shows you how to turn calm into deposits of trust, culture, and capacity, so the next storm doesn’t sweep you away.
When everything feels like it’s shaking at once, this practice steadies you, helps you sort what’s truly yours to hold, and guides you to take one clear step forward.

“I love how your writing tells a story and builds towards something—it keeps me wanting to read more. This resonated so deeply. I am that leader: depleted from all the pouring into others, carrying the invisible strain. Tell me more…”
charlie marcotty, school owner

“What really stood out to me was how conversational the chapter felt, it instantly turned into an internal monologue for me.. It was also extremely relatable, because it’s exactly what I’m going through right now...”
bri mccarty, school owner

“Honestly the entire chapter 1 was like taking pages straight out of my brain. I related to everything you spoke about, but I never expressed it out loud. It was like ahhhh someone understands what it’s like to be me!”
Donna Jensen, school owner
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